First: I do not have a very large wardrobe yet. I still have to strategize what I am going to wear to each meet-up so that I do not repeat something too soon. Perhaps as my wardrobe grows, I will wear Lolita more often.
Second: Lolita is not always appropriate. If I am running off to circus or dance, Lolita is definitely not going to work. Right now, I do not have a job, but whatever job I find may not be accepting of alternative fashions, and while I sit at home jobless, I general dress in dance/workout clothing, to encourage me to get off my but and workout.
Third: I am interested in SO many different aspects of fashion, and I do not want to pin myself down to just one. One day, I may feel like wearing Lolita. The next day, I may feel like dressing in a 50’s style fashion. The next day, I may be feeling gothic. I dress to my interests, to my activities, and to my moods.